Homeschooling an increasingly popular option across state

By: Amanda Oglesby
Asbury Park Press
USA Today Network - New Jersey

..... When the COVID-19 pandemic transformed public schools with remote learning, masking and social distancing mandates, April Barker and hr husband felt compelled to make a big change for their family. The parents pulled their children out of public schools and started homeschooling.
..... They are among a growing segment of New Jersey families who are opting to educate their children themselves.
..... "We had a really tough time with our children doing virtual schooling during COVID," recalled April Barker, a mother of five children, htree of whom are school age. "They just really did not conform to it. they didn't want to sit behind the computer screen.
..... "We were also in the process of deciding to sell our home and travel the country," she said. "We decided to do it. We sold our house. We traveled for just about two months and jumped into homeschooling while we were on the road."
..... In the 20219-2022 school year, 1,295 New Jersey children were removed from public schools for homeschooling, according to state Department of Education records. However the following school year, [2020-2021] with the pandemic disrupting education across the nation, the number quadrupled to 5,326 children and teenagers, according to the department;s records.
..... New Jersey does not track how many students in total are home-schooled each year; rather, the education department tracks how many leave public school for home-school programs. The department does not track the inverse, or how many students stop homeschooling and register for public school.
..... Across New Jersey, public school enrollment declined by 3,908 students between the autumn of 2019 (1,375,849 students) and the autumn of 2002 (1,371,921 students), according to Department of Education records.
..... While public school enrollment has declined since its pandemic peak, about twice as many students left the public school system last year [2022] as did in the years before COVID-19 emerged.
..... Between the 2020-2021 school year and 2022-2023 school year, 12,593 New Jersey students left public schools for homeschooling, according to state department's records.
..... So why is it such a popular option?

Setting the pace

..... Like the Barker family, other home-schoolers say they have found freedom in homeschooling. Aidan DeVito, 17, of Middletown first found the idea of homeschooling appealing during the pandemic when mask mandate debates were dominating discussions about the return to classrooms.
..... But once he tried homeschooling, Aidan found it freed him, not only from the arguments surrounding COVID-19, safety and risk, but gave him freedom over his own time.
..... "I ended up enjoying it a lot," he recalled. "I liked the freedom that it gave me. I liked that you could wake up whenever you wanted, and you could pretty much schedule your day how you want it." Homeschooling also gave Aiden the opportunity to work at his won pace, faster or slower depending on the subject matter and level of difficulty, he said. The traditional classroom setting was more stressful by comparison, he said. Homeschooling was also an adjustment for his mother, Meghan
..... "I never thought I was equipped or capable to home-school, because I'm not gifted in teaching," Megham DeVito said. Yet the pressures of the pandemic and shifting mandates helped to change her mind, and Megham moved her son and her daughter to homeschooling. "My son thrives in his own home-school setting," she said. "He does not thrive in a classroom. He thrives academically, his grades are there, but he's not happy." both Aidan and his sist4er have returned to public school to play high school sorts, but it was a difficult decision for Aidan, the high school junior said.
..... "It was definitely tough, Aidan said "it is a little bit of a culture shock."

A path for unique needs

..... Brielle Billig of Old Bridge said homeschooling was also the best option for her son, who she said was diagnosed with ADHD, or attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder.
..... Billig was living in Marlboro when she decided to try homeschooling and pulled her son out of public school in first grade. "he needs to move. he needs to be able to get up. He needs to fidget," she said. But the rigid structure of public school weighed on her son and before long, his self esteem and happiness were sinking to levels that required intervention by school professionals and the family, Billig said.
..... At the time, "my son is coming home every day like a stressed millennial investment banker,: she recalled. "I see his love of learning dying. And I said, 'I don't feel that this is an environment that is designed for kids with ADHD, designed with kids that have anxiety and mental health issues."
..... With home-school, Billig says her son leanrs using kmore hands-on lessons, can dive into a particular academic interest, and the family has the freedom to take educational field trips. She uses a comic book based math curriculum and a separate English textbook to keep him engaged with his schoolwork.
..... "He's learning in a much more natural way here he's retaining it, rather than just sitting at a desk and having to memorize it," Billig said.
..... Billig also has a daughter who attends public school. "she thrives in a social environment," Billig said. "She loves going to school. In an ideal world, I would love to home-school them both, but I can't." For her son., "school was a chore," she said. "and it made learning a chore also. So now by doing it at home, that love of learning is back in him.
..... Over the past three years, thousands of New Jersey students left pubic school for home schooling, according to the state Department of Education. the exodus peaked during the 2020-2021 school year and had declined since, according to state records.
..... Yet homeschooling remains more popular that before the pandemic.
..... That popularity has affected some school districts more than others. toms River regional was among the top five districts that lost the largest number of students in the 2020, 2021 and 2022 school year, according to state records.

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